Victoria Moore Talks With GoBodyNow
Victoria Moore: Perfect Sex
Sex is marvellous when it’s good or great. In fact, it’s the most fun two people can have together without laughing out loud. Paradoxically, sex can also cause more problems in a relationship than almost anything else, whether directly because of problems with lovemaking, or indirectly due to infidelity. So what’s the secret to perfect sex?
Well, there is no big secret, really. Don’t try to achieve perfect sex – that just puts you both under too much pressure. Instead, concentrate on enjoying each other to the fullest, and do this as often as you can – after all, they do say that practice makes perfect, don’t they?
When it comes to sex, you should be thinking ‘we’ rather than ‘me,’ so talk about what you each enjoy most, and what you may want to try to enhance your mutual sexual pleasure. Talking about sex is a turn on in itself, and it’ll put you both in the mood for love.
The best sex always results from taking time to arouse each other fully, so you reach a point where you can’t wait to make love. Talking about what you’re going to do together is a great way to prepare yourselves for perfect sex.
Spend lots of time on foreplay. It’s a great way to get to know each other’s bodies, and to discover what increases pleasure and anticipation for the two of you. And it’s a marvellous bonus when you accidentally stumble on something new that you enjoy.
Be prepared to try anything, but at the same time, don’t try to talk your partner into participating in something they’re not happy about. It’s only going to be good if you’re both happy to experiment.
As you’ve probably gathered by now, the secret to perfect sex is good communication between the two of you, so communicate before, during and after. Talk about what you’re doing, or if you’re not comfortable with that – not everyone is – use non-verbal communication. Initiate and maintain eye contact, and discover how incredibly erotic that can be.
Have lots of kisses and cuddles, and when it’s all over, enjoy more chat, kisses and cuddles. It’s not rocket science, just a matter of thinking about how you can work together to maximise the enjoyment and fulfillment you both get from your lovemaking. If you can manage that, you’ll be well on the way to perfect sex.